2021.11.28 17:36 steel_sun Spam the message - Ban Volunteer Offers from this Sub
I see a lot of folks unhappy with the fact that nonprofits are using this sub to offer “opportunities” that are unpaid, but no mods are doing anything about it.
Why don’t we start with posting the request to ban them every day?
If that doesn’t work, we could spam the message that volunteer opportunities aren’t welcome because we can find them on our own.
If that doesn’t work, we can use another message.
If that doesn’t work, we could “unionize” and start a different sub with new moderators that will respect the intention of finding work.
We all work in the sector because we’re passionate, so let’s stand up.
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2021.11.28 17:36 thinkletopper discord
2021.11.28 17:36 AphRussiasNose Do you find braces on a person attractive?
2021.11.28 17:36 CatsAreDoughs Please disable map voting for the 1st week after rank reset. Adding new maps to ranked has become pointless because of this.
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2021.11.28 17:36 Solfaroiy Centaurify - ⚡ Launching Now on BSC
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2021.11.28 17:36 ColdNyQuiiL Adelaide Kane [Tenaya 7, RPM]
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2021.11.28 17:36 Environmental_Spot_6 Big win
2021.11.28 17:36 NewsElfForEnterprise George Clooney on Hollywood's changing culture: 'You can't get away with being a d*** anymore'
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2021.11.28 17:36 OneBoiArmy Anybody know how to fix this glitch?
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2021.11.28 17:36 _realmula Today you’re here. Tomorrow you’re no more… RIP 💔🕊
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2021.11.28 17:36 30thirty10forty [Gen8] My second Full Odds shiny! Caught him in Shining Pearl as well while wondering in the safari zone. He’s my first ever shiny safari Pokémon :’)
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2021.11.28 17:36 Surf283 Nice.
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2021.11.28 17:36 Myhusbandsatwork Cat odor in purse
I have a forest green leather purse that my cat loves to lay in and on. As a result the inside smells like cat, but not like a cat urine odor. Any idea on how to get the smell out? Or is this a lost cause?
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2021.11.28 17:36 had-me-at-sombrero Uruk-hai berserker
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2021.11.28 17:36 dd-man theory: this is a breakdown smile, not an excited one
2021.11.28 17:36 catnip-catnap Anyone in the market for dress shoes?
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2021.11.28 17:36 Hmmnomnom1 What are your opinions on people who eat/munch/gulp loudly every so often?
2021.11.28 17:36 Glass-Studio-40 Amy Winehouse by Glass Studio 40 💄
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2021.11.28 17:36 No_Detective_2317 Ok. She’s mine. Names??
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2021.11.28 17:36 crown-of-love Instead of actually reading classic literature, why not try reading shitty books that reference classic literature in ways you’re unable to appreciate or understand?
2021.11.28 17:36 plushgamR ayo tf is that post above me?
2021.11.28 17:36 KaoticRt [USA-WA] [H] EVGA RTX 3060 XC Black [W] Local Cash
My name finally came up on the EVGA wait list. I am no longer in need of this card and would like to sell for $650 instead. It is BNIB with all factory seals intact as shown on timestamps. This was just delivered on 11/26, can provide proof of it. Local is 98203.
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2021.11.28 17:36 jellybeansonly My (31f) partner (31m) of 14 years has been unfaithful again after we were SUPPOSED to be rebuilding our relationship!
This is really long, but I don’t know how else to summarize this (I've edited it a lot lol)- TLDR down below. I really don’t know what to do. My partner of about 14 years broke up with me last year. He was clearly mentally unwell and had a giant mental breakdown. He said and did a lot of uncharacteristic shit. He also claimed to have feelings for a friend of mine neither of us had seen in years (who is also married), and that he was having dreams he married her. After a talk with her (I felt something else was going on) I learned that he had messaged her a few times inappropriately over the last 2 years, but they were pretty infrequent random messages. He said that he missed her “more than you could know”. He also told her about said dreams of being married and how “wonderful” and “can’t stop thinking about it”. He said in the same message “I know I shouldn’t say this”. This was so devastating to me, not only that he had feelings but that he let her know (subtly) before me. She also never told me because apparently we had a fight in high school (lol, um ok?). I was so crushed. My world literally turned upside down. I lost about 20 pounds and couldn't even eat or sleep, I lost an entire semester of work on my phd thesis.
When he broke up with me, he said I was way too good for him, he was a trash person, and that I would meet the best guy and have an amazing life. He said I was his best friend and he wanted us to be best friends still. Of course, I told him he was nuts and that we can’t be BFFs and I went no contact for months after a lot of back and forth, other than what was necessary for our dogs (one of our dogs was at the end of her life). Lots more crazy BS happened during this time. He really put me through hell. I was shocked, and so was everyone in our lives.
He had never been unfaithful before. But, our relationship was not good for about 2-3 years, and we always had toxic patterns since we got together so young that just spun out of control. I had massive trust issues and was all over him for everything. I projected my shit all over him. This was due to my own issues of my dad killing himself, after he ran around on my mom my whole life. I was very damaged from this. My partner supported me through his suicide and we have been through so much together. He also is a great help to my brother who is disabled and lives with us about 80% of the time.
In hindsight, breaking up was hurtful but necessary. The other stuff with my friend was disgusting of him. But I thought, he is human, he makes mistakes. Feelings happen, but it was the dishonesty and that she knew things before I did that killed me. He was so mentally unwell and was literally delusional. He was so, so sorry and cried and begged for forgiveness after 6 months apart. So given this, I decided to forgive. It’s not like we were so happy. I see how a person could create a fantasy when their life is so utterly painful. I see how I was so controlling and crazy that how could he have felt OK coming to me with confusing feelings (still wrong to lie, I know this). While we were apart, I was working a lot of myself and had made great strides in healing. Of course, this was when he came back.
I didn’t date anyone or sleep with anyone during our breakup, other than convos on tindebumble. When we decided to give it another shot, of course I deleted my accounts and any contacts I had from those apps. He said he did too. He showed me the apps were gone form his phone. He made so many promises for better and that we would get married and none of this would matter one day. We have done counselling, but only once. Clearly, another huge mistake. We have continued open communication and discussed things a lot together. I’ve been going to counselling a lot on my own and really working on myself. We are still living apart. I’ve taken this seriously, I don’t violate his privacy, look through his phone, or anything anymore. I didn't even want to. We both seemed to be working hard, he had stopped verbally disrespecting me and name calling (something we both did but he did much more). It was going great. I was SO proud of him, myself, and us. I thought, look at us, breaking habits and beating the odds! I also was finally feeling like my PTSD from the break-up and the betrayal was going away, thanks to a lot of work I was doing in therapy. I also have PTSD from childhood abuse and my dad’s suicide, which I also have finally been processing.
However one thing never sat with me was that he had this instagram contact from when we broke up. I knew because I used to stalk his followers after we broke up (and before I deleted him to go no contact, not healthy, I know). As he betrayed me online before, I was nervous about this contact because she’s 22 (we are 31) and lives in our city. So why are you instagram friends? He said she added him randomly and she was “no one”. When I asked him to delete her then, he said I was being silly. I brought this up a few times (calmly and a couple of times in arguments) and he always reassured it was nothing and why should I care, etc. I tried to let it go, because thats what trusting people do- give the benefit of the doubt. I also thought, wtf would he want to do w/ her, she’s so young. He has me, and I’m awesome! Dumb of me,I suppose.
The other day we were laying in bed, watching instagram memes and videos together. Then he accidentally slipped and opened his DMs. Of course, 22 year old he “doesn’t know” is at the top of his DM’s. I was floored. I freaked out, wtf, if you are strangers, why are you DMing? At first he tried to say that I was seeing things- huge red flag. Then he said he was just replying to her story that her cat looked like our old cat. Stupidly I bought this, in the name of trust and giving the benefit of the doubt. But deep down, I knew something was sour in the buttermilk. A few days after this (Wednesday) we got in a stupid argument. He went home. I was pissed at him and just had such a feeling something wasn’t right and I was clearly picking a fight. For the first time in ages, I wanted to snoop. I don’t have any of his passwords, or anything that isn’t public social media. So I went in his Spotify, thinking, maybe he made a playlist for her (he has one for me he’s been creating for years). I even thought to myself, this is so dumb, I’m being an idiot! But I had to check. Then I see she’s following him on Spotify. That was it. I knew. He has 5 followers on there, he never shares his Spotify or most played or anything on social media. I asked him (in a rage, mind you) “what the fuck is this!” He told me I was being crazy (via a quick phone call) and that he “never lied”. He hung up and wouldn’t answer my texts or calls. I knew I would never get the truth from him. So I messaged her (how embarrassing for me to have to do, but I needed the truth). Turns out, they met on Tinder in December. Funny, because I flat out asked him several times if they met there. I don’t care that he met her there then, we were broken up. But why keep the contact and lie to me? She said they don’t talk much but send each other memes. They had planned to meet a few times while we broke up, but never did. Then the bombshell that the last time they arranged to meet was in October (as in, a month ago!) for “movie marathon”. She asked him, he said yes, but neither of them followed through. This was October 18th, around the same time I was struggling with PTSD (given that it was coming up on the 1 year anniversary of him dumping me) and he was telling me over and over how sorry and how he would never do that again. They also are friends on snap chat, despite me asking if they were friends on snap. He rolled his eyes and said “of course not!”
She also sent me his tinder profile pics, which featured a pic from THIS summer’s cottage trip I took. So he’s had tinder active since we got back together, but I don’t know for how long. I also don’t know if its active now, but Im pretty sure if she can still see the match from December 2020, then its still active. I thought about making a phony tinder to see, but I can’t bring myself to even download the app, it makes me sick.
I was immediately devastated. And shocked, so shocked. I really was so so proud of us both. I thought we were trying. I knew there was so much work to be done. Things just kept getting better and we were both getting better at communicating. He said, “I can’t wait to marry you” and all this other crap over and over. He had really changed the way he was treating me. Like, wtf??
I sent him the convos of her and I, I sent him the tinder pic and told him I knew what the fuck was up. I exploded on him with a million texts. He has ghosted me entirely since I found on Wednesday night. However we are friends on steam, and I can tell he’s hermitting himself in his apartment playing video games. His response to trauma is to shut down and entirely disassociate, something he learned from his really traumatic childhood. I suspect that’s what’s he’s doing now. Not that I care why, because how dare you act the victim and leave me alone with this. I am so confused and hurt. I love spending time together. We have so much built together after all this time, so many shared interests. We still stay up all night talking. We had a great sex life, but we haven’t been having much recently. He told me he feels gross because he's gained some weight and that he doesn’t feel sexy (which I don't care about his weight at all). I figured, there are ups in downs in sex when youre together forever. He said he hasn’t even been jerking off and his sex drive is down.
I doubt he’s been physically unfaithful (we are almost always in contact, not because we are stalking each other but because we love to talk). He’s also really paranoid about COVID. Again, I don’t know for sure tho, he could been fucking other ppl, he’s not truth worthy at this point. I just feel in my gut that he isn’t, not out of denial but just based on what I know about him and that we FaceTime, he streams on Twitch and plays my playlist, I watch him play in the background while working my on phD thesis. I'm not sure when he would even fuck someone else.
Also, it bothers me so much that he denied, denied, and lied for soooo long about her, when it doesn’t even seem worth the lie to me, or worth ruining us, like why? He had her as a contact that entire time! I don’t get it at all, how is sending memes once and while worth to hurt me again? Or even to fuck her? If he wanted to sleep with her, why didnt he do it while we were broken up? Sounds like he could have. She said that neither of them pushed to meet. So if he could have then, why not just sleep with her, he was single then and would have had every right. Date her for a while, whatever. Why do nothing while single when he could have, to just keep her around when he’s trying to make it work with a woman who loves him more than anything?
A few days ago I was crushed. However I am glad for all the work I’ve done on myself, because I know he’s a fucking idiot and can never replace me. Of course sometimes I question myself, but deep down I know I’ll be ok. I know I am a catch, that I’m beautiful and sexy and smart. I know I could be married to someone else. But I don’t want that. Still, crazily so, I want this to work. I’m already 31, I’m so scared that I’ll miss the chance at a baby if I waste more time on him. But, then I love our family of me him, my bro, and our dogs. I love our life together. I was so, so, so excited for travelling with him, growing old, having kids. I can’t let go of that future. Still, I feel like, it’s probably over because how can I ever trust? I’ve been doing so much research online. Half of it tells me he can never change, the other half says that if hes willing to do the work and admit his wrongs, things can be good once again after a ton of work. I am never afraid of hardwork. If this NEVER HAPPENED AGAIN, I think I could forgive. But how could I ever know without monitoring his ass? Even if I do that, he could get a burner phone, etc. He could just get better at hiding things. I was so relieved that I could finally feel free not to worry about what he is doing. This was so freeing. I never want to worry about that again. But I dont want to give up on him and us yet. For now, I am working on myself, my thesis, and my little family of my bro and my puppy dogs. I feel so abandoned by him in his silence. I don't understand how he can justify any of this to himself or to me. But, I don’t want anyone else. I just wish he would get his shit together. I can’t understand why he is throwing it all away. More than anything, its gut wrenching sad knowing what we could be doing right now, what we could have. I just need advice, others experiences... I just love him so much.
TLDR: My partner of 14 years has been unfaithful/cheating again online after betraying me once before with an old friend. We were supposed to be working on things and I thought we had made great strides. I want this to work but I also don’t want to be cheated on and betrayed for my whole life, and I want to be able to have a healthy family. I need advice and help!
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