Did anyone else’s parents punish them when sick?

2022.01.28 02:21 Rthebeastofnature Did anyone else’s parents punish them when sick?

As a kid I had lots of health issues, got sick often had allergies. My mom medically neglected me, punished me, yelled at me, used it against me and made me stress about the money involving a doctor or medicine. Because of that I hid multiple health issues from over the years starting at 11 years old and looking back at it as. Adult I did the right thing I did what I had to do to get through and did, if my parents found anything out I would of been way worse off. I’ll start When I was was 3 I started having fuzzy vision and blacking out sometimes this went on for years and I didn’t tell my mom about any of this, seems hard to believe at 3 but goes to show I was neglected and knew how to hid it out of fear. I also had bladder issues where it burned to pee really bad earliest memory 3 years old (sexually abused) and got worse by the time I was 7 it was peeing all the time my mom didn’t take me to the doctor until I was 9, and through that time I got yelled at for needing to pee so often, was often made to hold it hours at a time because I was not normal and a freak for needing to pee so much by daycare workers, teachers, my parents, other kids. It made feel horrible for something I couldn’t control that’s after I spent peeing all day Mother’s Day, and begged her to take me to the doctor, got antibiotics, for the most part cleared up quickly but still suffer long term issues, including urine incontince (earliest memory 7, started wearing liners everyday at 12, pad everyday since I started high school) (23 now) I also came home from school stinking like pee from 7-12, got made fun of in school, and yelled at by mom saying what’s the hell wring with you, you don’t know personal hygiene, don’t kids make fun of you for this? And how I was a embarrassment to the family. coudent do anything about it. I also had farting issues bad at 9 got made fun of in school, got in trouble at school, and yelled at by my mom for it saying I needed to control it better and that I was disgusting. I also had severe excema issues from 3-14, my doctor gave me prescription hydrocortisone cream. My dad use to regularly take it from me to hide for himself saying I don’t need it, leaving me to suffer. I use to itch severely until I bled, all over my body, and get hives, it was a painful experience, one time he took the last of it and itches and itches till I bled in the bathroom one night, and my mom kept yelling at me saying if I don’t go to bed I will not go to school, eventually she came and knocked me off the toliet smacking me, and banged me head into the floor for it. I also suffered severe allergies 4-14 also untreated or only partially treated 11-14 i would be covered in hives bleeding, wheezing eyes face swollen and laughed at being called a faker, I had seasonal allergies and animal allergies, every Sunday I would go to grandma house for dinner with family,aunt and uncle would bring dog over and I would have a allergic reaction so bad and get allergies so bad and break out in hives from the dog licking me. I would wheeze and sneeze and bleed from the hives, I wasent allowed medicine except for the occinsoal Benadryl, (they said couldn’t afford anything else, otc or a doctor) wich grandma didn’t approve of, she convince my mom and the whole family I was faking it , I would get made fun of. They would encourage the dog to lick me and jump on me making it worse I was 8-10 at the time. No one cared I was bleeding from hives or Hardly breathing. I could of died who knows. Another thing is I got sick a lot and had to miss school, grandma would watch me, I would get antibiotics and split them with her so she wouldent get sick. She was poor, and my mom struggled with money at times so I thought we making the best of a bad situation. And then when I was 13 grandma ended up in hospital, my first question was how can she afford this and afford the antibiotics. She gets free health care because she’s poor. I was pissed and asked her about when I was little. And she said Grandmal Dosent like going to the doctor, and she didn’t approve of you taking all that medicine. I was sick a lot as a kid , stayed sick for a long time, and suffered a lot I think this is why. When I was 11 started having double vision when wearing glasses and didn’t tell any one about that because I was scared I also would regularly wake up where all my vision was white 7-14 and didn’t say anything because I was scared of getting yelled at and beat. At 13 I started having swallowing and breathing issues, eventually I couldn’t even drink water for a week it was bad, this went on for almost 2 years until I was 15, I lost 40 pounds and was starving all the time. I was good at hiding it and scared to say anything. One time my got worried and started crying to me in the garage about it (one time thing) and said my dad didn’t know about it and she wanted to take me to the hospital and coudent afford it. She told me if my dad finds out he’ll beat me :( she did her best to protect me from him. When I was 14 I fell down the stairs from pain in my lower right side most likely appendicitis so for the next 6 months I was in severe pain down. And worried I was goanna die from it bursting. I had to hide that pain too, and I couldn’t do anything for it not even taking tyneol , thankfully I have a high pain tolerance from being beat when I was younger. So I could get through it. That also went away on its own. One night from this I was in so much pain throwing up. My mom got mad told me she hopes I die and go to hell. And told me I better not wake my dad up or else he’ll beat me. Sorry for the long post I just wanted to vent
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I just finished watching Superman and Lois and I was really hesitant to watch it but I actually really enjoyed it. I was surprised that I actually REALLY like the actor playing superman. it really does seem like what Tom Welling's Clark all grown up/ his natural progression would be into Superman.
However, I'm not crazy about Lois. While I don't dislike the Lois on the show (I am really enjoying the show) I feel like she lacks all the fun/ humor Erica had. Her character is still good but seems unoriginal and is the typical "mom/girlboss" which I've seen in so many shows. I loved how Erica's Lois brought humor and made Clark seem more light/ fun vs. being his just as serious equal. I'm bummed we don't get to see the fun Lois as a mom and reporte wife to superman.
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2022.01.28 02:21 xocay i’m off blockers! anyone else?

been on hrt for 3.5 years. i was on oral e 6mg & spiro 200mg for the first 2.5 years. my e sat at around 70, i had never saw it go past 100, my t sat around 55.
started injections 6mg weekly + blockers, and my E would trough end of week at 170 and T bottomed out at 15. I lose all sex drive and was super fatigued, no energy or motivation, erection or orgasm was impossible.
i stopped blockers officially in October 2021 and just got my levels checked, E is at 215 and T is at a 27. this is the best my labs have ever been and the best i have ever felt in almost 4 years.
has anyone else had injections be ‘just enough’ and also be able to stop blockers and have amazing results? it feels great! no more pills, just 1 weekly injection, so care free with perfect results.
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2022.01.28 02:21 aveies how do i talk to my mom’s boyfriend about this?

so my mom’s been dating this guy for a couple years and he’s super kind and giving but he’s fucking annoying sometimes. my patience is wearing thin with this guy and i nearly snapped when he brought up something about my mom today.
for some background: my mom is filipino and she struggled a lot growing up in the philippines. she didn’t finish her primary education because she had to quit school to support her family. she had a tough life before coming to america and worked her ass to come here. and her boyfriend who’s white and american loves making a joke out of her for not having the most perfect english and an accent. he’s always making her say random shit just to mock her and it’s heartbreaking because i know that’s one of my mom’s insecurities. but all her previous boyfriends have done the same and she’s pretty much used to it at this point.
so today he basically told my sister and i that we’re not her kids because we’re smart. he joked that we were switched at birth and there are probably “2 dumb filipino girls running around” somewhere. like what the fuck is that?
sorry if this post is unorganized i’m just so frustrated. i don’t know how to tell him to knock it off because he sees nothing wrong with it. i feel like if i told him he’d probably say something like “you know i’m just joking!” and all that bullshit. just because it’s a joke doesn’t mean it’s harmful. i see him belittle her everyday. it’s like he has some need to feel superior and intelligent by mansplaining everything for her too. there’s been several times where he tells me “she won’t get it, she doesn’t understand” but she fucking does
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2022.01.28 02:21 anonymous_9630 Feel bad for having anxiety on the road

Today I went practice driving around the area where the behind the wheel tests usually happen. I panicked and made a big driving mistake. I feel bad for my older sister who did yell at me, but mainly because I messed up. I just feel bad for having such bad driving anxiety. I don’t want to stress my sister out, but I keep making these dumb mistakes. I know how to drive, but my anxiety makes me doubt. Sigh, I just hate having this anxiety while driving…
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thats all!

note:- at this point i burned out of ideas. if you can give feedback that would be great.
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